For most Americans, buying a home for the first time is a financial balancing act. You’re likely weighing your resources to make certain you’ve planned properly for a down payment, closing costs, and a monthly mortgage payment. But the first financial step toward making it all happen is presenting an offer with earnest money. But what is earnest money, exactly?
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In this post, we’ll help you get a full understanding of that first step and how to avoid a misstep that could mean the difference between getting the home you want and having your offer rejected by the seller.
What is earnest money in real estate?
Earnest money, also known as a good faith deposit, is the funds that a buyer puts down to show that they are serious about purchasing a piece of real estate from a seller. The buyer typically gives 1% to 3% of the sales price as an earnest money deposit (EMD). However, these percentages vary depending on the housing market, local economy, and supply and demand in the area.
The main purposes of earnest money are to:
- Show the seller that you’re a serious buyer with “skin in the game” and something to lose.
- Make your offer look better and stand out because the more earnest money you put down, the stronger your offer is.
- Reward the seller for taking their home off the market.
- Protect the seller in case the buyer backs out of the deal.
- Give the buyer time to complete the home purchase, get a mortgage, title insurance, an appraisal, and home inspections
- Give the buyer security that no one else can purchase the property unless they default on the contract.
Earnest money is generally given with a signed purchase agreement. So, your real estate agent writes up your offer on the house, including the sales price, closing dates, and any contingencies. And with that contract, the earnest money is given. It’s then held in an escrow account until closing. At closing, the earnest money is put toward the buyer’s closing costs.
For example, if you make an offer on a $500,000 house and leave a 3% earnest money deposit, that $15,000 will be deducted from what you owe at closing, as long as the deal goes through.
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Is earnest money always required?
“Earnest money isn’t required by law in Georgia, but it’s always recommended,” says Tonya Byrd, a top-performing Atlanta area real estate agent. It gives weight and validity to your offer. It’s rare that a seller will take an offer seriously without an earnest money deposit.
The seller doesn’t want to waste their time and money and lose out on other potential buyers by taking their house off the market if the earnest money isn’t received.
Why should I provide earnest money?
You should provide earnest money to strengthen your offer, to show the seller that you’re serious, and to encourage the seller to take their house off the market for you. “The seller isn’t going to take their house off the market based on your word. They want to see the funds to back up the offer,” says Byrd. Earnest money gives the seller peace of mind that this is a serious offer that will most likely result in a sale.
How does earnest money work?
The purchase agreement will dictate what happens to the earnest money if there is a default from either party. It will also lay out contingencies and due diligence dates. Contingencies can be for things like a mortgage, an appraisal, and a home inspection.
There are a few scenarios where the seller may get to keep the earnest money if the buyer defaults, and other times the buyer will get their earnest money back if the seller hasn’t fulfilled the promises on their side of the contract.
Byrd has experienced times when the seller couldn’t deliver a clean title to the house for whatever reason, and because this was a contingency in the contract, the buyer got 100% of their earnest money back.
“I had a deal almost fall through because the listing agent failed to disclose that the property wasn’t approved for an FHA loan, and getting an FHA loan was a contingency for my buyer purchasing the house. Thankfully, we were able to restructure the deal, my client didn’t lose her earnest money, and she still bought the house,” relays Byrd.
Earnest money vs. down payment: Is there a difference?
Although the terms “earnest money” and “down payment” are often interchanged, they are not the same thing. Earnest money is not dictated by a lender, and it has nothing to do with the loan. It’s just a good-faith amount given with the purchase contract.
Conversely, a down payment is the amount that you’re putting down on a house with a mortgage. A lender may require 20% down as part of their loan conditions. This amount is separate from your earnest money. You will need to show your lender that you have the funds for the down payment during underwriting, and you will need to show where they came from.
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How much earnest money should I give?
“Earnest money is generally between 1% and 3 % of the sales price,” according to Byrd. Earnest money isn’t a set amount. It’s up to the discretion of the buyer. Typically, a real estate agent will advise the buyer on how much earnest money to leave as a deposit. It may be typical to leave a larger earnest money deposit in a “hot” or active market like California, where there are multiple offer situations.
If you don’t want to lose the house, you may decide to leave 10% as your earnest money deposit. The larger your deposit, the stronger your offer, so it can be advisable to leave more. Just make sure you keep up your end of the deal so you don’t forfeit the money.
In addition to earnest money, keep your other homebuying costs in mind, such as how much you will need as a down payment and how much closing costs will be required to purchase the home. Also, remember things like homeowners insurance, homeowners association (HOA) dues (if applicable), landscaping, and maintenance costs.
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When is earnest money refundable?
Earnest money shows a seller you’re serious about buying a home, but it’s not always locked in. In many cases, you can get it back if certain parts of the purchase agreement aren’t met. Knowing when it’s refundable helps you stay protected and confident throughout the process. These are the times it can be refunded:
- Unfavorable home inspection (home inspection contingency):
If your purchase agreement includes a home inspection contingency, and the inspection reveals major issues—such as a damaged roof or plumbing problems—you are entitled to a full refund of your earnest money. You also have options beyond walking away: you can choose to move forward with the purchase, request that the seller make the necessary repairs, or negotiate a credit at closing to cover the costs.
- Low appraisal (appraisal contingency)
All buyers who are getting a mortgage will have an appraisal contingency since the lender requires it. If the contract says the house needs to appraise at $800,000 for your loan to be approved, and it only appraises for $750,000, you get your earnest money back as the buyer.
Keep in mind that if you really want the house, you can pay the difference in cash if the lender agrees. Or, you can ask the seller to reduce the price based on the low appraisal.
If you’re a cash buyer, an appraisal contingency is always recommended. That way, if the house doesn’t properly appraise, you can decide if you want to move forward or not.
- Mortgage not approved (financing contingency)
If a buyer has a contract with a mortgage or finance contingency and they can’t obtain a mortgage for whatever reason, they will get their earnest money deposit back. This is why sellers prefer for buyers to either pay all cash or to not have the contingency at all.
If a buyer didn’t have the financing contingency in place and was declined for a mortgage, they would be obligated to purchase the home or lose their earnest money.
- Inability to sell the existing home (home sale contingency)
If you have a home sale contingency in the purchase contract, and your existing home doesn’t sell by the stated date, you will be entitled to get your earnest money back as the buyer. The seller may not be happy about it, but legally, the contract is enforceable.
This is also why it’s important to keep the earnest money in a trusted professional’s escrow account because things can get tense, and you don’t want a disgruntled seller to have access to your deposit.
Should I waive contingencies in my purchase offer?
Offers with fewer contingencies usually look stronger to sellers because they make the deal feel more certain, but skipping them comes with real risks. Talk with your real estate agent and attorney before signing a contract so you know exactly what you’re getting into.
It’s also important to evaluate your financial position and risk tolerance. Are you willing to purchase the house with cash if you can’t get a mortgage, or are you willing to lose your earnest money if the house needs a multitude of repairs and you choose to walk away?
Contingencies are important because they protect you—covering things like your financing, home inspection, and appraisal. But piling on too many can make your offer look less attractive and even cost you the house. The trick is finding the right balance between keeping yourself safe and making a strong, competitive offer.
Who keeps earnest money if a deal falls through?
Who keeps the earnest money if a deal falls through all depends on the contract and what it says will happen to it. It also depends on who is to blame for the deal falling apart. If the seller promised to deliver a house with a clear title and they can’t, then the buyer will get their earnest money back.
If there was an appraisal contingency and the house appraised for less, and the buyer and seller can’t work out the difference, the buyer will get the earnest money back.
However, if the buyer finds a neighboring house she likes better and decides to purchase it and not close on the original house, she will lose her earnest money deposit.
There may also be scenarios where the real estate agent gets to keep a portion of the earnest money deposit as payment for their services. This varies by state and must be clearly stated in the agreement of sale to be enforced.
How can I protect my earnest money?
You can protect your earnest money by giving it to your real estate broker to keep in their separate escrow account. Or you could give it to your real estate attorney to keep in their escrow account. This way, no one can access the funds until closing or until a default has been proven.
Here are some more ways you can avoid forfeiting your earnest money:
- Understand your purchase agreement
- Get pre-approved for a home loan
- Make an offer on the proper home for your needs
- Avoid making multiple purchase offers
- Shield your deposit with contingencies
- Choose a lender with an earnest money guarantee
- Pay attention to purchase agreement timelines
- Raise issues early
- Void purchase agreements correctly
- Check your state and local laws about earnest money deposits
Learn more about protecting your earnest money at this link.
Make your offer hard to ignore
Putting down an earnest money deposit isn’t just a formality. It’s a powerful way to make your offer stand out. It shows you’re serious, proves that you have something to lose, and gives the seller confidence to take their home off the market for you.
With the right strategy, including the smart use of contingencies, you can make an offer that’s both competitive and secure. HomeLight can connect you with a top buyer’s agent who knows how to craft the strongest offer on your dream home.
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